The empty bedroom at the end of the hall still smelled like crayons and bubble gum. David Richardson had kept 8-year-old Ethan’s room exactly as it was the day his son lost his battle with acute lymphoplastic leukemia baseball posters on the walls. Lego creations scattered across the desk. A half-finish drawing of a superhero family taped to the window.
Some days David would sit on the small bed and remember the sound of Ethan’s laughter, the way he’d insisted on wearing his Superman cape to every chemotherapy session, and how he’d spent his final weeks not complaining about his pain, but worrying about whether other kids in the cancer ward had enough toys to play with.
18 months had passed since Ethan died, but grief, David had learned, wasn’t something you got over. It was something you learned to carry. The sharp, breathless panic of early grief had evolved into a deeper, more complex emotion that colored everything he saw and touched. He missed his son with an intensity that sometimes felt like drowning.
But he’d also discovered something unexpected. Ethan’s love hadn’t died with him. It had transformed into something larger, more purposeful, more healing than David could have imagined. The Children’s Cancer Foundation had become David’s second home. What started as a desperate need to feel close to Ethan by helping kids who were fighting the same battle had evolved into a calling that gave meaning to his loss.
David volunteered 40 hours a week at the foundation, organizing events, visiting children in hospitals, and supporting families who were walking the same impossible path he’d traveled. Ethan’s Angels, as the foundation staff had started calling David’s initiatives, had raised over $200,000 in 18 months. They’d funded art therapy programs, purchased comfort items for hospital rooms, and created superhero capes for children undergoing treatment.
An idea inspired by Ethan’s insistence that capes gave you superpowers even when you were sick. David’s wife, Sarah, had initially worried that his constant involvement with the foundation was preventing him from healing, keeping his grief too fresh, too present. But she’d come to understand that this work wasn’t about avoiding grief.
It was about transforming it. David wasn’t running from Ethan’s memory. He was running toward it, finding ways to keep his son’s spirit alive through service to others. Ethan taught me that love doesn’t end when someone dies. David had told Sarah one evening as they watched children at the foundation’s camp participate in activities that Ethan had helped design before his death.
It just finds new ways to show up in the world. The Family Feud opportunity had come through the Foundation’s board of directors, who had nominated David for the show’s special episode, featuring people who had turned personal tragedy into community service. David’s first instinct had been to decline. Being on television felt too public, too exposed for someone still navigating the raw edges of loss.
But when he mentioned the opportunity to the kids at the foundation, their excitement was infectious. 8-year-old Lucy, currently in remission, had grabbed his hand with both of hers and said, “Mr. David, you have to go on TV so more people know about Ethan. He was the best superhero ever.” That comment had sealed his decision.
If appearing on Family Feud could bring more attention to childhood cancer research, could help more families access support services, could honor Ethan’s memory in a public way, then he would find the courage to do it. The Richardson family team consisted of David, Sarah, David’s brother, Michael, Sarah’s sister, Jennifer, and David’s father, Robert, who had been Ethan’s beloved P.
They’d all been part of Ethan’s care team during his illness, and they’d all been part of each other’s support system through the grief that followed. Robert, now 72, had struggled deeply without living his grandson. “It’s not the natural order,” he’d told David repeatedly. Grandfathers aren’t supposed to bury grandsons. But he’d also become one of the foundation’s most dedicated volunteers, using his carpentry skills to build play structures and his gentle manner to comfort families facing their worst fears. Steve Harvey noticed something
different about David. Immediately during the pre-show warm-up, there was a depth to his presence, a careful way he held himself that suggested someone who had been broken and put back together. Not quite the same as before, but somehow stronger in the mended places. David’s smile was genuine, but carried weight, and his eyes held the kind of wisdom that comes only from surviving something that shouldn’t be survivable.
David, Steve said during introductions, “Tell me about your family.” David stepped forward, his hand unconsciously moving to touch the small pin on his lapel. a photograph of Ethan in his Superman cape that he wore to every Foundation event. We’re the Richardson family from Denver, Colorado, David said, his voice steady but emotion visible just beneath the surface.
I’m David. This is my wife Sarah. My brother Michael, my sister-in-law Jennifer, and my father Robert here representing the Children’s Cancer Foundation where we volunteer. Steve noticed the pin immediately and the careful way David had phrased his introduction. Tell me about the foundation, David. What makes that work important to you? David’s composure faltered slightly.
This was the question he both expected and dreaded. The one that would require him to talk about Ethan on national television to make his private grief public in service of a larger cause. 18 months ago, we lost our 8-year-old son, Ethan, to leukemia, David said quietly. He was the kind of kid who worried more about other people than himself.

Even when he was sick, he was thinking about how to help other children who were fighting cancer. The studio fell respectfully quiet. “The foundation is our way of continuing his work,” David continued. “Of making sure that his love for other kids doesn’t end just because he’s not here to show it himself.
” Steve nodded, clearly moved by David’s dignity in the face of unimaginable loss. The game began against the Martinez family from Phoenix, and both teams proved competitive. David was thoughtful with his answers, drawing on a perspective that had been deepened by loss and expanded by service. When questions came up about family, love, or overcoming challenges, his responses carried a weight that resonated throughout the studio.
During commercial breaks, Steve found himself drawn to David’s quiet strength. There was something about the man’s presence. The way he encouraged his family members, the way he seemed genuinely interested in the other team’s success, the way he carried himself with dignity despite obvious pain that spoke of character forged in fire.
It was during the fourth round that the question came that would open David’s heart completely. We surveyed 100 people, Steve announced. Name a way to honor someone’s memory. David was at the podium. The question felt like the universe asking him to articulate everything he’d learned about love, loss, and legacy in the hardest classroom imaginable.
He looked back at his family, then at the audience, then at Ste. By living the love they taught you, David said clearly. The words carried such conviction, such hard one wisdom that the studio fell completely silent. Steve sat down his cards immediately and approached David by living the love they taught you. Steve repeated softly, “That’s beautiful, David. Tell me what that means to you.
” David took a deep breath, realizing he was about to share the most profound lesson of his life on national television. “When Ethan was sick, he spent more time worrying about other kids than himself.” David said, his voice gaining strength. He asked us to donate his allowance to buy toys for children who didn’t have visitors.
He gave away his favorite stuffed animal to a little girl who was scared. He drew pictures for kids who were too sick to draw their own. The audience was completely quiet, hanging on every word. After he died, I was so angry, so lost. I didn’t understand how someone so good could be taken so young. But then I realized that Ethan wasn’t Dawn.
His love was still here, still needed, still powerful. I could honor his memory by continuing to love the way he taught me to love. Steve’s eyes were filling with tears. “And how did he teach you to love, son?” “Without limits,” David said immediately. “Without conditions, without worrying about whether you’d get anything back.
” “Ethan loved people because they needed love, not because they deserved it or earned it.” He taught me that love isn’t something you lose when someone dies. It’s something you give away more freely because you understand how precious it is. Behind David, Sarah was crying openly. Robert had his hand over his heart, remembering his grandson’s enormous capacity for caring.
The entire studio was witnessing something profound, a father transforming his deepest pain into his greatest purpose. David, Steve said, his voice thick with emotion. I need you to understand something. What you just described isn’t just grief. It’s grace. You took the worst thing that could happen to a parent and turned it into the best thing you could do for other children. David shook his head.
I didn’t have a choice, Mr. Harvey. I could either let Ethan’s death be the end of his love, or I could let it be the beginning of something bigger. He’s still my teacher, even from heaven. Steve walked closer to David. His expression intense with respect and admiration. Son, I’ve met a lot of people in my career, but I’ve never met anyone who understood love the way you just described it.
Your boy didn’t just teach you how to love. He taught you how to turn love into legacy. The audience began to applaud, but Steve held up his hand. I want you to tell me about the foundation, Steve said. Tell me about Ethan’s angels. David’s face lit up with the first genuine smile he’d shown all day.
Ethan’s Angels is what we call our programs for kids with cancer. We provide art supplies, comfort items, superhero capes. Ethan believed capes gave you superpowers when you were fighting something scary. He reached into his pocket and pulled out a small photograph. Ethan in his Superman cape, grinning despite his obvious illness. This was taken two weeks before he died,” David said, holding up the photo.
“He was so sick, but he insisted on wearing his cape to treatment because he said it would help the other kids be brave, too.” Steve looked at the photograph and saw what everyone in the studio saw. A little boy whose joy persisted in the face of suffering, whose first thought was for others, even in his own struggle. David,” Steve said.
“Your son was already a superhero. And you’re continuing his mission.” David nodded, tears flowing freely now. “Every child we help, every family we support, every dollar we raise for research. That’s Ethan’s love still working in the world. He’s still saving people, just in a different way.
” Steve reached into his jacket pocket and pulled out his business card. But then he paused and reached for something else. His phone. David, I want to do something. Steve said, I want to call my foundation right now and arrange a donation to Ethan’s Angels because what you’re doing, keeping love alive after loss. That’s not just admirable, that’s sacred.
The gesture was unprecedented, but Steve’s emotion was so genuine that everyone in the studio understood they were witnessing something special. But more than that, Steve continued, “I want to make sure people know about this work. would you be willing to come back to talk about the foundation to help us spread Ethan’s love even further? David could barely speak through his tears.
He would love that, he whispered. He always wanted to help more kids. Steve then did something that would become one of the most meaningful moments in Family Feud history. He removed his suit jacket and approached David. This jacket has been with me through thousands of shows, Steve said.
But today, it belongs to someone who’s shown me what real heroism looks like. You wear this and remember that your son’s love isn’t just a memory. It’s a mission. And you’re the perfect person to carry it forward. As Steve draped his jacket over David’s shoulders, the entire studio rose in spontaneous applause. But the moment that broke everyone’s hearts was when David looked up at the ceiling and whispered, “I hope you’re proud, buddy.
I hope I’m doing this right.” The episode aired eight weeks later and became one of the most shared Family Feud episodes in the show’s history. The segment featuring David and Ethan’s story was viewed millions of times. But more importantly, it generated over $500,000 in donations to the Children’s Cancer Foundation within the first month after airing.
David received thousands of messages from other parents who had lost children, from cancer survivors, from people who had been inspired to volunteer or donate because of Ethan’s story. But the message that meant the most came from a 9-year-old cancer patient named Tommy who wrote, “Mr. David, I got one of Ethan’s capes, and it really does give me superpowers.
Thank you for helping Ethan help me.” Steve Harvey kept his promise to support the foundation, arranging for regular donations and featuring David on his talk show multiple times to continue spreading awareness about childhood cancer research and family support services. But perhaps the most meaningful change was in David himself.
The appearance on Family Feud had given him a platform to share Ethan’s story on a national level, but it had also given him something else. confirmation that his son’s love was indeed still changing lives, still making a difference, still powerful enough to heal both the giver and the receiver.
I used to think that when Ethan died, his chapter was over. David reflected in an interview 6 months later, but I learned that his chapter isn’t over. It’s just being written by other hands now. Every child we help write another page of his story. Today, David Richardson is the executive director of the Children’s Cancer Foundation.
Having left his corporate job to dedicate himself full-time to the work that gives meaning to his loss, Ethan’s Angels has expanded to serve children in five states. And the foundation has funded research that has contributed to improve treatment protocols for pediatric leukemia. David still wears Steve’s jacket to major foundation events.
And he always carries Ethan’s photograph, but he’s also learned to carry something else. joy. Not the innocent joy he knew before loss, but a deeper, more complex joy that comes from knowing that love persists, that purpose can emerge from pain, and that sometimes the most beautiful legacies are built from the ruins of broken hearts.
In the foundation’s lobby hangs a large portrait of Ethan in his Superman cape with a plaque underneath that reads, “Ethan Richardson, superhero, teacher, angel. His love lives on in every life we touch. And in David’s office, next to Steve Harvey’s business card and countless thank you letters from families, sits a simple handwritten note that Ethan had given him during his last week of life.
Daddy, when I go to heaven, I’m going to ask God to help you help other kids. Be brave like superheroes. Love, Ethan. Because David had learned that grief and love aren’t opposites. their dance partners moving together through the steps of a song that plays long after the music seems to stop. And sometimes when you listen carefully, you can hear the melody continuing in the laughter of children you’ll never meet.
In the hope of families facing impossible odds, in the knowledge that love once given never truly ends. It just finds new ways to save the world. One cape, one hug, one act of service at a time.